July, 2009

  1. Swimming Lesson Sandwiches

    July 31, 2009 by Tarrant Figlio

    This time of year, whenever I am in a gathering of women, I get transported back to the banks of the Magothy River in the 1970s. Why? Because there I realized that women do things differently when together but not really friend friends but friendly. Also, because that bit of summer tastes like a “revolutionary” sandwich of the day.

    You see, a large group of us took swimming lessons in the Magothy river. While we learned crawl stroke, “Elementary backstroke” (a creation different from the backstroke the rest of the world learns), breast stroke, and to dive into the murky river–our mothers shared chatter and food.

    One of the most coveted food items (on my part) and coo’d over foods the first summer of swimming lessons was a sandwich. A VEGETARIAN sandwich. (Well sort of, not sure if the Seven Seas Green Goddess dressing had anchovies or not)

    Here are the ingredients:

    Pocket Pita (known as Kangaroo bread or pocket bread in my area at the time)
    cucumber slices
    tomato slices (most likely tomatoes from Diehl’s produce stand or the garden)
    sprouts
    chopped green onions
    lettuce (either buttercrunch from the garden or iceberg)
    sliced green peppers
    Green Goddess dressing

    All the veggies arrived sliced and then the moms would slice the pitas in half to make the pocket, fill, top with dressing and eat.

    Yes, that is it. Now, this is the sandwich that I would beg for after lessons…but was for grown ups. I still got to sneak a bite or two from time to time.

    Every once in a while, it makes me pause to pick up green goddess dressing (which my kids think tastes like ranch) or stop and stare at the Kangaroo bread. Sometimes I will sneak one into my summer, but it just doesn’t taste the same without a group of gossipping moms, the grit of sand, and the kiss of the sun and river water on my face.


  2. Community, BlogHer and My Child

    July 28, 2009 by Tarrant Figlio

    Ok, I owe a BlogHer wrap up post. I know. But, there are an increasing number of people who think I really owe the doctor a call. I am ignoring them for a bit. I am also ignoring the real wrap up post and the fact that this is a food blog.

    Because, my daughter, Rebecca,

    RJ at BlogHer

    RJ at BlogHer

    wrote this post: Blogher: there really isn’t anything I can say to describe it. Really.

    This is the daughter that could mimic the AOL “You’ve got mail!” before she could really talk. This is the daughter who spent a childhood overhearing mutterings about terms and conditions, terms of service, and about all the world of online community has to offer…both the good and the bad. Click Michelle just read her post and I said to her that my kid knows community. She replied “Of course, she’s been raised with it like Cheerios.”  I suppose she has, but I also know that what parents do for a living remains mystical to children.

    The mushy part at the end of the post…of course is sweet.

    The part though that got me:

    “I felt like a part of a community, a family, a group with one unifying cause. At the community Keynote, I sat next to perhaps the most inspiring woman, besides my mother, that I had ever met (she knows who she is), and I told her that, coming into blogging, I was concerned that I wouldn’t stand out, that there would be a million bloggers just like, or better than me. But, I continued, coming to Blogher, I realized that no one could be exactly the same as anyone else. Like stars in the sky, we each have a different light, and we each illuminate the world in a different way.   Whether we be mommy bloggers, life bloggers, book bloggers, or “miscellaneous un-life” bloggers, we each touch the blogging community and serve to make it better.”

    That is what I want to take out of BlogHer. That is what I want to take out of BlogHer Con every year. That is what keeps me in online community year after year after year. That is what I want each of you to know about participating in online community-whether as a blogger, lurker, forums, groups, or message board person. Find and keep that magic. Make it brighter.

    Yes, Rebecca, it is community. You are beautiful. BlogHers and BlogHims are beautiful. Thank you for reminding me of that again.

    Thanks to each of you who took the time to spend with her this very busy weekend and for all of you out there who have helped us raise this amazing child, whether you knew you were part of her life or not.

    And Rebecca, your blog is you and should be your love song FOR you. To share, to be that light, to invite more light and to remind yourself of who you are, who you were, and who you will be. Your heart has sung its love song to me since before you were born and every single day since…you becoming the person you can and want to be is all the love song I need to hear. That goes for your siblings as well, all of them.

    This love is like mercury splitting off endlessly every time I try to nail it down. Anything, anywhere I would give everything I own away. Always I will sing picturing you singing right back to me  ~Melissa Ferrick (and of course, the song I so oft quote to you, mean for you, and sing with you)


  3. My Keynote Speech …

    July 24, 2009 by Tarrant Figlio

    My part of the BlogHer Community Keynote went so wonderful and I had a great time. Thank you to each of you who came up to me and told me it was fabulous, or made you cry or made you think of your mom or grandmother. Thanks to all of you who appreciated my twirls too. Thanks to all those other fab women who presented their speeches tonight. Thanks to the great audience. Thanks to the super sweet make up woman who helped me out down in the MediaSpa lounge place. Thanks especially to my children and Denise who challenged me, inspire me and love me…even when they don’t love my cooking. Thanks to Mama who taught me that I can do anything that I want to do and to be me.

    In any case, if you came here looking for the post I read…thank you too. I hope you come and visit again.

    Here it is: Love Song.

    If you are interested in the dress…it came from Etsy…from the wonderful super fast and talented Audrey and Grace. (Thanks to everyone who voted for it on Kaboodle too. You helped me make a great choice) (added note: My mother bought the dress. The kids, the people who voted in the Kaboodle poll, and I picked it out.)

    TWs BlogHer Keynote Dress


  4. Deviled Ham Dip

    July 23, 2009 by Tarrant Figlio

    I am about to head out to BlogHer after working part of the day. It feels like I haven’t stopped working in a week due to getting things ready, visitors, and my usual crazed life. But I am feeling a bit devilish so how abut a Deviled Ham Dip to celebrate the beginning of BlogHer 09?

    1 cup sour cream
    1 can deviled ham (Yes, I really do love this stuff. Yes, the deviled ham in a can.)
    1 teaspoon prepared mustard
    1/4 teaspoon celery salt (leave that out if Denise’s mother is coming…she doesn’t do celery salt)
    1 tablespoon minced onion
    1/4 teaspoon sugar

    Combine all ingredients and blend thoroly. [sic] Chill. Serve with assorted crackers, chips, vegetables such as radishes, carrots, cauliflower, celery or green onions for dipping. (Has anyone ever used a green onion to snag some dip at a party?)

    From Dips, Dunks, and Cocktail Spreads By Mary Meade, Food Editor, Chicago Tribune, (Back cover is stamped Aug 20 1962 but no idea on when that was done or if it is accurate for dating)